American reality TV series, HGTV’s “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition,” helps a community build a dream home so a family can build its future.
By Sarah Schafer in New York
This weekend, millions of viewers will watch the Barobi family, who fled violence in the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC), move into their “forever” home and start a new life.
Friends from their hometown in the U.S. state of Utah nominated the Barobis to appear on the American reality television show, HGTV’s “Extreme Makeover: Home Edition.” The show, hosted by UNHCR supporter Jesse Tyler Ferguson, remodels or builds homes for families who have survived devastating loss with grace and courage and are ready to thrive. It airs in the U.S. on 23 February at 9 p.m. New York time.
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The show’s design team built a new, environmentally sound house from scratch for the Barobi family in less than one week. Hundreds of neighbours volunteered their DIY skills. The volunteers also were there to surprise the family when they saw their new place for the first time. UNHCR, the UN Refugee Agency, sent volunteers to paint, dig holes and landscape the backyard.
“Being a refugee is not by choice,” Azida, the eldest sister in the family, told UNHCR. “A refugee is someone who needs freedom, someone who needs to be heard, someone who needs to be helped, someone who needs to be welcomed, someone who needs to feel loved.”
In 2011, violence erupted in the DRC after national elections, and their father told the Barobi family they must run. As the family fled, rebels captured them. Ashraf, then 13, watched the rebels kill his father, his mother and his youngest sister. Then he gathered his two young sisters, Azida (now 17) and Habiba (now 15), and kept running. “I was not expecting to be called a refugee,” said Ashraf, now 20 and living in Ogden, Utah. “You are living a normal life, and the next day, you become a refugee.”
“Being a refugee is not by choice.”
The siblings made it to neighbouring Uganda and, with the help of a community leader, to the Kyaka II refugee camp. There, among thousands of refugees, they reunited with an aunt and a cousin who also had escaped the violence in the DRC. As a newly formed family unit, the Barobis lived together in the camp until 2014, when they learned they had been chosen to be resettled in America. They flew to Salt Lake City, Utah, and eventually settled in Ogden.
That is where the Barobi’s story began again.
Meet the Barobi family
Ashraf, 20, was 13 when he watched rebels in the Democratic Republic of the Congo kill his parents. “Being a refugee just means that your life changed... Life hits you.” © UNHCR/Kathryn Mahoney
Azida, 17, wants to be a lawyer and describes herself as “someone who happens to be blessed in ways that are confusing. I’m just a normal girl who’s here in America to get her dreams done.” © UNHCR/Kathryn Mahoney
Habiba, 15, plays on the school volleyball team. “It’s important your community knows you’re not different from any of them. You guys are just the same people. You do the same things.” © UNHCR/Kathryn Mahoney
Anifah (“Aunty), 33, cooks meals from the home they had to leave. Her nieces and daughter think she should sell African food because, “she is the best cook in the entire world.” © UNHCR/Kathryn Mahoney
Zulufa, 14, is in her first year of high school. She loves to read adventure novels and fan fiction. She wants to be a producer. “We all have different stories.” © UNHCR/Kathryn Mahoney
What is a Refugee?
Refugees are people who have been forced to flee their country to escape violence or persecution. There are more than 25 million refugees in the world.
“A refugee is someone who needs to feel welcomed.”
The Barobi family’s story does not represent reality for most refugees. Most refugees want to go home when it’s safe. Until then, the majority try to rebuild their lives in a nearby country. Only a small percentage, less than one per cent, are resettled to a third country or even the country they fled if it has become safe again.
Meet the community
Aden Batar, of Catholic Community Services in Ogden, came to the U.S. as a refugee from Somalia. “This community helped me get a job, my kids an education. I have to give back.” © UNHCR/Kathryn Mahoney
Dave Hogan, president of Wadman Corp., wanted to help the Barobi family, to feel “the pure happiness of the people that they are, of what they’ve been through and what they will become.” © UNHCR/Kathryn Mahoney
Caren Werner is the film commissioner for Visit Ogden tourism bureau. “I realized this is a block away from my home. I will be one of the Barobi’s neighbors. It’s such an honor.” © UNHCR/Kathryn Mahoney
Originally published by UNHCR on 21 February 2020